Monday, September 23, 2013

爱情4阶段

一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段,那就是
阶段之间转换所需的时间不一定,因人而异。  
 第一個階段:共存;
  這是熱戀時代,不管何時何地總盼望能膩在一起。

  第二個階段:反依附;
  等感情穩固,一方想多一點時間做自己想做的事,這時另一方就會覺得被冷清。

  第三個階段:獨立;
  這是第二個階段的連續,請求更多獨破自主的時間。

  第四個階段:共生。
  這時新的相處之道成形,你們已經成為最密切的人。

  你們在一起彼此攙扶、一起首創屬於你們人生。
  你們在一起不會相互牽絆,而會互相成長。
  他(她)就像是你的親人。

  然而,好多人都通不外第二或第三階段,抉擇分別。
  實在良多事只有好好溝通就會沒事,可是想太多和率性就是無奈防止。
  世界上碰到獨一的你多麼不輕易,能不能不要輕言廢棄。

  你發現了嗎?
  你們本不雷同之處,表面不相像,性情也是背道而馳,
  但是相愛而後在一起,
  日復一日,年復一年,
  你會驚訝你的眼睛竟有點像他的眼睛。

  他的微笑竟也有點像你的微笑。
  你們走路的步調變得類似。
  你們談話的語氣也愈來愈像。
  你們愛喝統一杯飲料。
  你們的口頭禪變得一樣。
  你們總能猜到對方下一句話是什麼。
  原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。

  你在人不知鬼不覺中讓他改掉了他愛皺眉的壞習慣。
  這個轉變,也許連他自己也未曾覺察。
  他在不知不覺中讓你變得做事不再隨隨便便。
  你差點認不出自己。
  會在不知不覺中逐步變成對方幻想中的人,
  這種改變,相對不是刻意的。

  兩個人相處時光越久,氣質也越相近,
  有一天,你驚奇地發明,
  這樣的你們如許默契。
  或者再也遇不到這樣的情感。

  深深愛著一個人的時候,你本來真的會一點一點失去本人,
  可是為什麼你還會感到快活呢。
  大略是由於你在失去的同時,也賺了,
  你把他的氣質跟他的微笑都賺回來了。

  友人,你們走到哪個階段了?
  世界上遇到唯一的你多麼不容易,能不能不要輕言放棄。

  能不能一直走下去。
  請不要說下輩子,
  我多怕下輩子再遇不到你。
  所以就這輩子,就讓咱們始終在一起走下去

Thursday, August 22, 2013

24th year old bday

ever feel tangle in this year.. don’t know is good or bad.. very complicated feel!
anyhow, I get my early present from the loves one..
1week before real bday hits…
he bring me to get ever expensive bday gifts in my life..
the first Gucci bag I had.. (note:I’m not that materialistic actually) 
anyway big big thanks to him, lots of love from him to me..
I know is kinda a big burden for him. Buying such expensive present..(@_@)

till the exact day of my bday, im not feeling so well..
so not really celebrate it..
he wanted to bring me to anitpodean  for the brunch, but too bad no parking nearby and seeing quite full house tho.
so went to “three little pig and a big bad wolf” for our brunch..
there, quite full.. so we wait a while till they serve us..
not really have the appetite to eat so just order something like breakfast to eat..


taste actually so so, not that special..
but appreciate his purpose..

night time, he plan going to Tao for the dinner celebration.
but I refuse to go bcox not really got appetite to eat that much..
so went to The Gardens had the Taiwan cuisine with his parents too..







so ended my whole day of 08112013..
I got nothing special wishes at this year..
Just may everything be good, fine & healthy..

Change the view , actually it might destine.. I accept everything it happen from now..
too much things that I can’t control actually.. 


anyhow, wish myself all the best in future..
godbless =)

Monday, July 8, 2013

Mix up (July)


Been busy , even tho after graduate ..
Went for travel then get sick and so on..

5July 
After work rushing for farewell dinner and movie "despicable me 2" 
Time was so rush , cox my b late finished work.. Everything was so rush!
But thank at last it could finished at the time and went for movie..
It's was so funny! I love the cartoon minions 


6July
The Saturday, usual he get to work part time but not this week..
Wake up and brunch with his mom after that we went to pavilion for shop.
Seeking the sport thing..
Money burned ! 
Night, another dinner with YW and Edwin at klang for the lala..

Things gone wrong, the dearest get fire up and order was wrong .. 😥
But still not consider so bad.. 
Our plan after the dinner went to genting , so suddenly plan.. 
Date Yuan and his gf , of cox with YW and his sister too!
Went up find uncle lim to claimed some for today burned money .. Who's know he ask us to sponsor him some..
Lose money so sad 😭
Money lose so get to Starbucks chill until 4am only back to KL..

Body ache cox not really recover full from sick, don't feel so comfortable 😷

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Something to express

I wanna say, don’t try to change me if you still imperfect..
I don’t like you sound me and say you are trying to fixing me , making me to be a better person.
but actually you are still imperfect and meanwhile the way you say like your philosophy is 100% correct ..
realize that your fren always important than anyone, I never says it’s wrong..
but unconsciously to show infront of me I defiantly feel unhappy about it!
after all what had you promise me to do, turn your head around and totally you will forget all !
the way u do ur thing doesn’t mean I must follow it! U got ur own way I got mine, please respect people though..
yet, every time u have to settle your things first but not mine and only your stuff will be urgently needed! I hate y then is not your business and u can be not responsible at all.. u just ignore it and follow what you want to do, but not asking people for how..
REMEMBER im not a worm inside your stomach, I don’t just follow what you want to do!

I enough with it, don’t disregard my word!
day and days , it become worst and worst , don’t wait until the volcano had explode and only realize!
don’t forget everyone do have their own temper, you had it too..

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

16/04/13 晚餐



那天,跑去吃火锅了..吃了1个小时++!也太久了吧~
NSK,新开的有优惠50%..
一个人RM6.90,可以选择性的选一人一锅还是一大锅全部人一起吃..
我们选了一人一锅,卫生点..
东西是小份点,还不错啦因为便宜嘛..
可是如果是原价,那么小份就很贵!
东西有点少但可以另加食品,当然是另计!有些我觉得很贵没什么值得吃的啦..
个人觉得我们加的肉片时还好,太薄了!最值得是加了鱿鱼啊~~~
那里食品很新鲜不错吃的啦~
但是不懂是不是担心熟过头,很快把火关掉..
吃了后肚子没有很舒服!





Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Lack of motivation


MIA been awhile, lazy to  get update the previously 1..
my internal exam had done.. waiting the external coming and im ready to die not to do the paper!
yet a happy news, finally get a vacation after exam!
YES!!!!!! Quite happy tho,but hardly express out the feeling cox exam still not yet over..

pass weekend, mood not really good cause without his accompany..
usually, which used to stick with him on weekend..
but he got a PT job to earn extra money, so why not to let him using the free time to do it..
so no one accompany me..
too much time to being a stalker, looking on something..
look on something which make me pissed off!!!
it same as he don’t like what other ppl had and he had it too! So do i! I don’t like the way u calling the past tense and using the same word to call me..
it make me more unhappy when he never keep in touch with me, so sad!!!!
wanna angry him for some period!!!! Such a bad boy

living make us busy, busy making money, looking on better thing..
=(


Sunday, March 31, 2013

Important day 2013 - March

Long time didn't get to update , busy busy recently..
someone sound d, why no updated?
hahahahahahaha, ok la..
update the most important 1 in this 2013..
on march 24 =)

when clock strike 12 it’s the dearest 24th birthday, but so bad that no one are celebrating for him..
*sad case* =(
but still I’d make a cake for him..
we cut the cake on 12oclock..


after having pcs of cake,he was just like a kid getting to open his present..

I don’t think is a surprise for him anymore, he can guess what did I bought!
cox this troublesome people, really hard to get him a nice present…
really do hopefully he don’t mind abt the present & the cake..

sleep till quite late only wake up, preparing to go out..
went to pavilion have our brunch, we had it in at the foodcourt there..
thai cuisine was the choice.. right choice, because the food is delicious~



after our meal, get to Tokyo street have some drinks and dessert..
the yoghurt raspberry icecream is the love!


walk till no where to go, no movie for us then went to farenheight there to look around and rest at there..
he seems so no mood, look kinda sad.. *actually he was sick & I doesn't know at all +_+



after that we went his home, finally he complain that he is sick..
pity my baby boy, get sick on his important day..

night, very late we only went out had some food..
tot will never had the “three little pig and the big bad wolf” food, because he still sick and is quite late..
but try to see izit still on business hour..we got luck, and still in business hour..

so had the late dinner at there..
he are anot allowed to had fried hot food, spaghetti is the only choice ..but it’s the signature food from there..
then im having the the signature pork burger too!
love the environment at there~

but someone are not in the mood because sick.

the only lil small surprise for him when he away to took my polaroid cam..


Happy 24th Birthday to my precious